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Weightless

Making Space for My Resilient Body and Soul

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A poignant and ruthlessly honest journey through cultural expectations of size, race, and gender—and toward a brighter future—from National Book Award nominee Evette Dionne

My body has not betrayed me; it has continued rebounding against all odds. It is a body that others map their expectations on, but it has never let me down.

In this insightful, funny, and whip-smart book, acclaimed writer Evette Dionne explores the minefields fat Black women are forced to navigate in the course of everyday life. From her early experiences of harassment to adolescent self-discovery in internet chatrooms to a diagnosis of heart failure at age twenty-nine, Dionne tracks her relationships with friendship, sex, motherhood, agoraphobia, health, pop culture, and self-image.

Along the way, she lifts back the curtain to reveal the subtle, insidious forms of surveillance and control levied at fat women: At the doctor's office, where any health ailment is treated with a directive to lose weight. On dating sites, where larger bodies are rejected or fetishized. On TV, where fat characters are asexual comedic relief. But Dionne's unflinching account of our deeply held prejudices is matched by her fierce belief in the power of self-love.

An unmissable portrait of a woman on a journey toward understanding our society and herself, Weightless holds up a mirror to the world we live in and asks us to imagine the future we deserve.

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    • Library Journal

      July 1, 2022

      From the 1970s to 2020, when Cecchi-Azzolina proclaimed Your Table Is Ready, he meant it; he was ma�tre d' for sparkly New York restaurants like River Caf�, Minetta Tavern, and Le Coucou (50,000-copy first printing). Critic, journalist, and author of the National Book Award finalist Lifting as We Climb, Dionne uses personal experience--from harassment to health issues--to plumb issues of size, race, and gender in Weightless (100,000-copy first printing). A vending-machine entrepreneur by age nine now famed for TikTok's Her First $100K, Dunlap was surprised to learn in college how many female friends lacked money-management skills and now seeks to bring out the Financial Feminist in every woman (100,000-copy first printing). Following nine sometimes glamorous, sometimes painful decades and publication of the New York Times best-selling memoir Lady in Waiting, Glenconner asks Whatever Next, then delivers lessons learned while living in proximity to the Crown (50,000-copy first printing). In Why We Meditate, internationally best-selling author Goleman (Emotional Intelligence) and Tibetan Buddhist meditation master Rinpoche join forces to explain why and how meditation can help practitioners push back destructive emotions. In Screaming on the Inside, New York Times opinion writer Grose examines 200 years of unrealistic, even morally questionable parenting expectations to reveal the damage done to generations of mothers in particular (100,000-copy first printing). In Smitten Kitchen Keepers, her much anticipated third book, star food blogger Perelman tests and retests classics to offer failproof recipes for cheddar broccoli quiche, lemon poppy seed cake, and more. Quilter's Hatching draws on both reportage and personal experience to explore the impact of assisted reproductive technology today. From Forbes staffer Sorvino, Raw Deal details the current crisis facing the U.S. meat industry, flailing after consolidation, price fixing, and supply-chain issues even as alternative meat producers emerge.

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    • Publisher's Weekly

      September 26, 2022
      Journalist Dionne (Lifting as We Climb) examines fatphobia in America in these sharp essays. From detailing early experiences with bullying to unpacking personal relationships and destructive beliefs, Dionne confronts the systemic prejudice against fat bodies. In “No Country for Fat Kids,” Dionne considers Weight Watchers programs for teens and Michelle Obama’s initiatives to fight childhood obesity, arguing that these well-intentioned programs ignored “how difficult it would be to help fat children gain and maintain ownership over their bodies.” In “Doctors, Get Your Shit Together,” Dionne recalls her deteriorating health as medical practitioners dismissed her symptoms of heart failure and instead prescribed weight loss as a cure-all. Later, Dionne recounts watching the 1990s sitcom Living Single and being transfixed by Queen Latifah, who played a plus-size Black magazine editor who prioritized her own desires: “Khadija was the first character I’d seen who told me I didn’t have to just accept what was offered.” Dionne also dissects her complicated fascination with the reality series My 600-lb Life, which fosters feelings of superiority: “I’m able to create distance between the fat body I inhabit and their fat bodies.” Crackling with conviction, this is an urgent call for change. Agent: Sarah Phair, Sanford J. Greenburger Assoc.

    • Kirkus

      November 15, 2022
      A feminist culture writer examines the challenges plus-size Black women must overcome on a daily basis. Dionne, author of Lifting as We Climb, began writing these essays in order to raise consciousness about "fatphobic culture that's bolstered by a billion-dollar dieting industry." By the time the book was completed, she had been diagnosed with heart failure and pulmonary hypertension, conditions caused by doctors' inability to see beyond her "fatness." Drawing on personal experience and popular culture, Dionne shows how "fat people" are mistreated by being "dismissed, willfully misinterpreted and sidelined." The problem begins in childhood when boys and girls are taught "to associate thinness with discipline [and] fatness [with] laziness" and made the objects of weight-bullying when they do not fit size expectations. The medical establishment has its own fat prejudices that only compound the issue. Dionne writes about how doctors routinely lectured her about her weight in young adulthood and focused on adjusting her diet. When she exhibited problematic symptoms like "swollen ankles, unrelenting lower-back pain, hot flashes and uncontrollable weight gain," they immediately blamed her fatness. Even the excessive bleeding from which she also suffered wasn't enough to convince Dionne's gynecologist that fibroids had caused the problem. "Three in four Black people with uteruses will develop fibroids in their lifetime," she writes. Later, decisions doctors made on how to treat her pulmonary hypertension robbed her of the ability to have children via vaginal birth. The author argues persuasively that the media plays a huge role in promulgating negative fat-girl stereotypes. The few positive images it has offered--e.g., Queen Latifah's sexy, confident character Khadijah James on the 1990s sitcom Living Single--provide plus-size Black women life-changing visions of a positive lifestyle. Vibrant, intimate, and intelligent, this book lays down the unapologetic demand that women of size finally be allowed "to be fat in plain sight." A provocatively necessary collection.

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